Heidi's Here!

We are now a family of four!

I went in for an appointment earlier in the day on Tuesday, and I was feeling stronger contractions than normal for several hours after that. They were still fairly mild pain wise, though, so I went about my normal activities for the day like running errands, making dinner and playing with Cosette. But by early evening I felt that they were regular enough to go to the birth center (we decided not to do a hospital birth this time). We called my mom around 8:00 so she could make the drive from Springville, then had my visiting teacher Connie Baldwin come over to be in the house with Cosette (who was in bed and had no idea that she was about to become a big sister) until my mom got there.

Well, when we went in to the birth center they examined me and told me that my contractions weren't hard enough for me to stay. I was really devastated, because the contractions finally felt different this time and I was sure that Heidi was going to be born soon. But the midwife wanted me to wait and come back when I could no longer walk and talk during the contractions.

So we got in the car to drive back home, feeling pretty disappointed since this was our second false alarm. I waited a few minutes before calling my mom, not wanting to cry on the phone. But while I was talking to her, telling her that we were coming home, Jeff braked at a stop light and my water broke! So I ended the call with my mom and called the birth center to explain that we were coming right back.

After my water broke the contractions were hard and painful. I focused on my breathing and relaxing techniques while Jeff tried to drive as smoothly as possible on the terribly bumpy roads. When we got back to the birth center I managed to make it inside and up the stairs. They asked if I wanted to go into the birth room, but all I wanted to do was change out of my wet clothes. Jeff came into the bathroom to help me, and while we were in there I felt like I needed to go to the bathroom. I knew that this was what the last stage of labor felt like, but I assumed it was too early for me to push. But I was wrong!

When I started screaming the midwife and assistants rushed right in, helping me stand right next to the potty because there wasn't time to move to the birth room. Three minutes and two or three pushes later, Heidi was born!

From the time my water broke to the time she was born was about 35 minutes. Crazy! I am SO glad that she wasn't born in the car (or toilet)!

We spent a few hours at the birth center, and then made it home around 3:30 a.m. this morning. Here are a few pictures of us at the birth center:

Meeting Daddy

At the birth center

It was fun to watch Cosette's reaction when she met Heidi for the first time this morning. Cosette went to bed last night just like any other day, and then she wakes up to find her new sister is home (along with Grandma visiting). She's been very shy around Heidi and hasn't wanted to touch her or get very close to her, so we haven't taken any pictures of the two sisters yet.

Here are a few cute pictures of Heidi on her first day at home:

1 day old

A shy smile at one day old

Sorry, Heidi - you're cute even when you try to be scary

We're so grateful that Heidi has joined our family!
Oh, and in keeping the Anderson tradition of something having to go wrong when we bring a baby home (the day after we brought Cosette home, Jeff got a terrible stomach bug and I had to take care of both him and a newborn), our dishwasher decided to leak today. We're not sure what is wrong, but water leaked into the downstairs bedroom, getting into the light fixture and dripping onto the carpet. So we'll have to wash our dishes by hand until we can either get it fixed or replaced.

Anniversary

With Heidi's due date on July 24th, I was confident that we wouldn't be doing anything special for our anniversary on August 2nd. But as we got closer to the date with no baby, I decided that we might as well take advantage of her late arrival and celebrate our 6 years of marriage.

In the morning we visited the Bountiful temple as a family. We brought our book of wedding photos and walked around the temple grounds like we were on a scavenger hunt, finding where each picture was taken.

It was a lot of fun to do this with Cosette. And as we were getting ready to leave Cosette talked about how she was getting married in the temple that day. I complimented her on her beautiful wedding dress (she was wearing the rainbow dress from her birthday) and asked her who she was marrying. Her reply? "I'm gonna marry Bear."

Then in the afternoon Jeff and I went on a date. We ate lunch at La Jolla Groves (which I highly recommend) and then visited the planetarium, where we went on our second date. We looked at some exhibits and played around with some of the fun merchandise in the gift shop.

All in all it was a fun and memorable anniversary.